brah oh my god why do i keep getting more thoughts on this topic.
i wanna talk abt art depicting beauty standards and art criticizng beauty standards. i hate how most art depicting body dysmorphia is just some shit like this 😭
like woww pretty slender lady looks in mirror and sees fat (ugly) version of herself! never been done before. like i wish i could see a depiction of body dysmorphia where the person who feels dysmorphic isnt some pretty slender lady in reality.
in some other art they would have like a normal looking person and then a person with non-conventionally attractive features in the mirror like does this not feel counterproductive. you are perpetuating the myth that some features are objectively unattractive like unibrows and hooked noses. you are aligning with the belief of conventionally attractive beauty standards.
i remember seeing this one skinny girl on social media just talking abt how fat she was right next to her actually fat friend and its like ur the problem girl. yknow its stuff like this that makes me wonder if they actually hate beauty standards or if they only hate it when it affects them.
this kinda relates back to the last post that i made how u are responsible with how u deal with beauty standards.
most art criticizing beauty standards are so lame to me brah like i get it already man can u talk abt something else. its all so surface-level and never goes any deeper than i am a conventionally attractive woman in reality but i think i look so ugly 😢
Growing up sheltered
growing up sheltered is truly hell because u keep getting older but have no idea what to do at all without someone
as a kid my parents did literally everything for me so i deadass dont know how to do anything. like no i didnt do chores or anything.
and it sucks even more cuz i cant even complain abt it ppl are just gonna tell me that im spoiled which i am but like i want to learn but dont know how to start? 😭everytime i talk abt this to someone they just tell me to learn and im like yeah... lmaoo
idk anything abt college or adult things cuz i dont even have friends either so its like im truly cooked
now almost as an adult i dont know how to do anything and i cant handle even the tiniest bit of stress. i know i can overcome this but man it wouldve been so much easier as a teenager and growing up throughout the years
im glad im not the only one like this. u guys should read those two pictures to get a better perspective of what its like growing up sheltered. i swear its a bad thing!!!
you havent done a single chore before?? wow you really did grow up sheltered.. i know there are guides and stuff online about growing into adulthood, i read a few and they were helpful ngl so maybe thats one thing you can do to start.
ReplyDeleteor try doing things like cook something simple and do more chores so you know how to do them when you live alone
growing up sheltered does sound horrible cuz it stunts you just like that one pic says 😕 being clueless as an adult ourghhh cuz people expect you to know everything once youre an adult lowk 😭
my life is so over man. why do we have to become mature at such a young age💔
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